My writing had always been somewhat vague that only those who knew what i was talking about could tell what i was saying. But the problem is the very target niche that i aimed for couldn't really see that. So, tell you what. Fuck it. I'm just gonna say it straight. No metaphors, no hidden meanings. What I'm about to say carries the very literal meaning of very single word of it, so even a six year old could understand.

When you want something, just fucking say it and ask for it. Don't play games like, "oh, he should have understood....." because you know what, HE FUCKING DOESNT until you say so.

When you did something that caused severe negative impact on the other party, well, logically, you should never ever use any turn of event to turn the blame on them. It's just cheap and bloody unfair.

Nice people who were born nice, who have always been nice to you and will always be, well, are really really sincerely nice and have good intention towards you. They might even marry you one day. But they are human as well and they have flaws. Naturally they bound to make mistakes regardless how nice they are. So when they did, and apologized, so the decent thing to do is to at least forgive them. Not cut them off and make them feel like worthless bastards. You know they'll think it's their mistake and take all the blame and spend the rest of their lives feeling bad about it and regretting doing whatever you thought they did. So what, you take pleasure in others' misery? Nice. How thoughtful.

I LOVE YOU AND WHY IS THAT SO HARD FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND?????????????